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My little Rope Dress
Life has gotten in the way a lot this past week, making it pretty hard to get play time in. However, we finally managed and I was soooo excited until it all went horrible.
It was bedtime for the kids. I went to our room as instructed and put on my nightly required skirt. I was anticipating whatever Sir had planned. I saw rope on the bed and grinned like a clown. I love rope and Sir knows this. We continue the nightly routine of getting our children to bed and Sir asks that I wait for him in the bedroom after. He tells me to strip to my panties, I do as I am told. He picks up the purple rope and starts straightening it out before winding it around my body with knots and twists to form a beautiful Karada. By this point my body is buzzing with excitement. Sir asks me to come sit downstairs with him for a bit, and again I do as I am told. Nothing at this point feels off or out of norm for me. We sit for awhile,Sir strokes me, teases me, loves on me. He then asks me to go to our room, get ready and assume position. I do all these things happily and with excitement. When he enters the room, music starts, I am stroked and touched, bent over the bed and flogged, both things I love. But, the flogger stings more tonight and doesn’t make me as happy. Then I am pulled onto the bed and restrained to the bed by wrists and ankles but I notices now I am slightly more agitated every time Sir touches me, even when its for pleasure. He gets the wand out…and gives me what should be amazing Os but instead I found I had no interest. Sir has picked up on my mood and I can tell is doing his best to pull me out of it. He changes my position and I remember saying yellow to something he did…my body was overly sensitive and agitated at this point, so much so that him even kissing my head was irritating me because he was doing it too much. He ended the scene and pulled me to him to talk. I was mad at myself for what I was feeling. not understanding it in the least bit. He used all my favorite things! I was honest about how I felt and he was understanding. We both have come to the thought that maybe so close to my period my body and emotions are creating chaos for me. He said he was glad that he was able to gain some more knowledge about my body and how it reacts under different circumstance (impending period, stress, etc)
I still feel mad at myself for my reaction, though last night we had some play and kept it much shorter and it went a bit better. Has this ever happened to anyone else?
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6 Replies
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Oh lady! Don’t be too hard on yourself! It’ll happen…it has happened to me before. Keep in mind that you did the most important thing though, you learned from it! My body goes all crazy when I am ovulating and it took me surprise as well, but boy was it a learning experience for my Sir and I.
Glad you got to play after!
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Thanks V. I was so upset but talking during DT helped and it gave us both some insight into my body and its reactions to different stressors.
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Yes we have many times. Hormones can totally suck!
Hardest thing is to give yourself a pass. It sounds like he handled it wonderfully and you talked about it. I know when it happens I just HATE that we missed out and I’m too hard on myself. The best thing is now we talk about it and learn from it. <3 -
Hello His Angel I agree with V and Princes, our body reacts differently sometimes with women issues or our emotions are all over the places and being touched or even a flogging feels different and not in way we may enjoy. We all have these days and it not a bad thing because we learn from it. Communicating in DT with your Sir about how you were feeling during the session helps him understand your body more and helps you both to grow. When Sir plans something and it doesn’t end up in a good way because I started out feeling I was going to love what Sir had planned But as we got into our play my body told me differently which now made me mentally not enjoy anything Sir did. So we talked about it in DT and Sir listened and said we would try it another time and if I react the same way to use “Yellow” so we stop and I can tell Sir what I’m feeling at that moment. Sir will make adjustments or change something that he is doing to see if my reaction changes and if not we will stop. It’s all good lady, no stress, this helps you both understand your body more and know that you don’t need to beat yourself up because you feel you let your Sir down. It’s a Learning Curve, all good!
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The same things happen to me every once in awhile. It might be hormones or something in my head going off. One day we can be playing hard, biting, spanking, rough tough stuff, and me begging for harder, and the next time him even kissing me seems to set me off. The biggest thing that helps us is Mr. J sees that I’m acting odd and will talk to me. We talk until I’m bored of talking and then we talk more. Once I’m calmed down we watch a movie after the kids are in bed and I slowly go from one side of the couch to slowly inching my way, to sitting next to his lap. He doesnt force me to sit next to him, he lets my head get back into its right sub place and once I’m next to him he’ll have me sit on the floor between his legs and let me lean on him.
Your Sir ended the scene without pushing you and then you both talked. Great job on that! The fact you both learned from the experience, and rather then letting one thing go wrong in turn ruining the evening or worse a turning into a fight, shows how well you guys are doing together.
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HS, Thank you for share …all great share back ! Yes, it happens ! We look at it as part of our D/s growing , changing, what works what doesn’t …
We continue to CUSTOMIZE our own, D/s Happily Ever After
Hearts, Curvey
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