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Standards and Rules
In forging new structures and recapturing old things between my husband and I, I was given a task today. I had to find some of the values and standards my husband has applied in his life.
His codes are things to live by, things that touch on spiritual, mental and physical. I am looking at them and seeing how we applied these things in our lives and in our home when we were younger but realizing how eroded that has become.
The foundation that allows me to grow spiritually and gives me an ethical code is important to me.
Do the rules you and your Sir apply support your spiritual self and encourage growth?
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HB,
ahhh I Luves that ! For us we don’t have lots of rules. But, we have some Little things that do mean LOTS …..
DOM Up – meaning Hus/Dom reach for the starts and the moon, be the best Husband, Leader…..
Sub-On – Im Rocking his word, completing my task , chores, work …….Hearts , Curvey
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The rules that Sir has given me are all to make me better…and sometimes are a call to action to correct behaviors he doesn’t like. My rules have changed from time to time, over our 10 months, as we evaluate where Sir thinks we need to be (or how he wants,me to act) as we evaluate our D/s. They are always rules to grow and better our D/s marriage. 🙂
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