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Romance isnt easy
For some girls romance comes easy. They enjoy the chocolate hearts and roses on valentines day, they enjoy flowers and cards on their birthdays, and a special remembrance on an anniversary. I grew up a tomboy on a 10 acre ranch. Climbing trees, riding bareback, I have no fashion sense whatsoever, and I’m usually running around outside barefoot with grass stained pants. Romance never made sense to me. I never remember birthday but my kids and we never celebrated our anniversary as its just 1 day of many we enjoy with each other. My husband of 10yrs understood this and has always done his part, buying me hard rock music or a gamers addition pillow. This Easter weekend was my formal acceptance. It was one of the harder things Ive had to do. Kids were asleep and Sir and I were cuddled up on the couch watching a horror film laughing at the over dramatic acting. In the middle of the movie I told him I needed a shower that I stunk and wanted to wash the day off. Sir offered to pause the movie I told him to continue. I had no idea how long I had to put my plan into action. I quickly washed and used a new body scented wash that made me smell like flowers. I giggled loud enough apparently for Sir to ask if I was alright and after a brief excuse his only concern was whether or not I had been sniffing the fumes. After a quick shave, and another double check for any spots I usually forget to shave, like one entire leg, I ran to the bedroom and began the task of “romance”. We don’t own any pretty smelly candles the only ones we had were quick melting ones that we use for play. Well this is better then nothing. I spent 5mins trying to figure out how to stand the candle up. I finally got a cup and set it inside which worked wonders setting a nice glow to the room. Finally I thought I’m getting the hang of this. I set my phone next to the bed and put a pillow hidden on the side of our ottoman for kneeling. I walked back to the living room just in time to watch a girl get gutted. Sir grabbed me by the waste and started to work the knots out of my hair with his fingers. 20mins later the movie was over and we were about to put another one it. OH NO.. THE CANDLE! I face palmed myself hard. Sir asked if I was alright I told him that I forgot something in the room and needed help. I took his hand and led him down the hall way into the bedroom. I opened the door and crossed my fingers. The candle was still lightly burning away and nothing was on fire. I did it! I asked Sir to sit on the ottoman and close his eyes. The room was dark and my eyes hadn’t adjusted. MUSIC! where was my phone. I got on my hands and knees searching again. With a heavy sigh I got up still Im my towel and asked Sir for his phone. He laughed and held it out. I called my phone and wouldn’t you know it, it was right next to the pillow where I left it. I put his phone down quickly pulled up my playlist and before I could set the purrfect song Korn started playing. That is our “lets play” band, and right away Sir said ALL RIGHT and began to unzip his pants. NOOO I’m not giving you a blow job. Just. Alright. I put one of our Celtic songs on we listen to while we relax. Ran over, took of the towel got pillow and got on my knees. I told him to open his eyes and reminded him he wasnt getting a blowjob. After a few laughs I told him how much I loved him and needed him and asked him if hed be my dom. He in turn told me how much he loved me and how much he needed me and asked if Id be his sub. Weve never done vows but thats what it truly felt like. It was a proposal of the most intimate kind between already husband and wife. Romance isnt easy being romantic isnt easy, but for the people we love, its worth trying and worth giving it our all to see them smile and happy.
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3 Replies
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That was lovely and very romantic. I’m glad your Sir appreciated it and echoed your sentiments right back. And you’re not the only who finds romance tricky.?
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That’s a great story and gave me a laugh. Reminded me of a book I read Screw the Roses and Bring me Thorns! Enjoy your journey and your very own Ds dynamic. Sounds like it is off to a great start!!
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Dear Harley,
Thank you for sharing your FA story ! Im soon HAPPY for you both ! Sometimes doing the …out of the box things ….Really end up being Fun,Romantic and very appreciated ! My share …remember all that effort you put into your FA, never forget the words you both said,that time stood still, It was Just Hus/Dom & Sub/Mrs !
HIT your PLAY back button on that moment when you hit a bump , Ebb, …….. Hearts , Curvey
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