• Posted by juliet-rose on at

    I was upset with Sir a few days ago. He made a decision that I did not agree with. Prior to D/s, I would have yelled and screamed and demanded I get my way (which was the right way LOL) Instead, I lowered my eyes, told him that he knew best and continued about my day. I wasn’t mean or cold, I wasn’t snarky or condescending, I did come to the Warren and vent  Last night when he got home, he asked me to come lay with him. He proceeded to tell me how proud he was of me and that I was right. I just looked at him, eyes full with tears. He said that he could see my growth and was very proud of my submission. He knew that I did not agree with his choice, but I remained respectful and my tone was submissive. He said that my reaction gave him time to think and realize that my suggestion was the better option. He told me I deserved the ”Super sub Award” (I don’t know if that’s a real thing, but I’m searching for the ruling committee! LOL) I can’t tell you how happy that made me. It makes me want to keep pushing and perfecting my submission. Knowing I have pleased him and having him recognize my growth in submission is as high as the highs get. Thank you ladies for helping me along my journey!
    Super sub, signing off!

    Unknown Member replied 9 years, 4 months ago 8 Members · 8 Replies
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  • Unknown Member

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    Awesome jr 😀
    so worth it

  • Sweets-CommunityMentor

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    This is so awesome to hear JR!!! Congrats on your award and your progress in submission!!

  • juliet-rose

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    Thank you ladies, I couldn’t have done it alone!!!

  • Unknown Member

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    Thanks for posting this JR. It is hard to have that trust sometimes but when you do it is so rewarding. I think that we can all learn from reading this and I know that in the past I have underestimated my Sir and have challenged something rather than remaining submissive and allowing him to lead. The new title is a lovely touch from your Sir too. 😀

  • abcde

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    I loved reading this, JR! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • Unknown Member

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    Subtastic job JR and Congrats on your award lady! Sometimes we don’t see ourselves grow, but we do and it’s subtastic that your Sir let you know that you have grown and its awesome to hear it.

  • mrs-coach

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    Wonderful post, JR! Thanks for sharing… I’m inspired!

  • Unknown Member

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    As someone who is fairly knew to all of this, I had already anticipated that this exact situation would be a future struggle for me. It was a pleasure to see that you handled it with grace, respect and submission and it gives me hope for the future. It was also lovely to read how your Sir responded to your submission, I only hope to have that reaction one day.

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