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Our Story
I did it…and honestly, the emotions are so strong right now, I’m not sure how to write about it. I wanted it to be an organic experience, something that felt natural and comfortable, and it definitely was. We are very new on our journey. I started reading erotica and BDSM-based literature about three months ago. I couldn’t get enough of it, and every story I read seemed to “get under my skin,” for a lack of better terms. Why did these stories affect me so much? I would share the stories with my husband, and he seemed interested. I got up the courage to tell him that I frequently fantasized about being dominated in the bedroom, and he was supportive and allowed me to express my feelings. Over the next few months, we talked more and more about what I was reading and what I wanted and needed from him in the bedroom. Our sex life got so much more interesting and stimulating to the point that I actually wanted to have sex (which is the complete opposite of how I used to feel). We were trying vanilla with a twist, and we both loved it. I continued to research BDSM and at the beginning of this year, I found husdom.com by searching “BDSM for married couples.” I mentioned to my husband that I found this cool site for husbands who were learning to become Doms, and he went to the site right away and signed up for an account. I signed up on Little Kaninchen’s site the same day. We have continued to talk almost every day about what we are learning on the sites, why we want a D/s, and what we hope to get out of our D/s. A couple of days ago, I called my husband Sir for the first time. We were chatting via text message, and I decided to go for it. He told me he wasn’t sure how to respond and that he was really surprised, but he said he liked it. Well, last night, my husband became my Sir. It was really late, around midnight, when my husband came to bed. I was still awake but was getting close to falling asleep. He obviously wanted some intimate time, and after a little while, I was definitely willing and wanting. He asked me, at one point, “What do you want?” and I said, “Whatever you want to give me, Sir.” That was the first time I called him Sir. Then he called me Little Honey, his name for me. We had a wonderful time, and after, I took his face in my hands and asked, “Did you like being my Sir?” He said, “I more than liked it. I loved it.” So, I said, “Will you be my Sir?” He said, “Yes. If you’ll be my Little Honey.” I said, “Of course, Sir.” We laid together just enjoying each other for a while until he said to get cleaned up. I got out of bed and went to his side of the bed. I kneeled in front of him and said, “Thank you for being my Sir.” He kissed my face and held me. When I got back from the bathroom, he had laid out my pajamas and straightened up the bed—something I can’t ever remember him doing before. Lying in bed last night, cuddled with my Sir, I had never felt more treasured, more safe, more loved. I felt sated and at peace, and my Sir said he felt the same way. I told him that even though we are just beginning, I can already feel the connection and intensity I had been longing for, and he agreed. It was a beautiful and perfect way for my husband to become my Sir and for me to become his Little Honey.
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That is beautiful! Thank you for sharing and Congratulations! 🙂
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Congratulations secret sub! So intimate and special.
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secret sub, Congratulations. What a beautiful experience and thank you for sharing. It really took a lot of courage for you to express what you want, desire and needed to you Sir and I am thrilled to hear that your Sir has the same in his heart too.
The journey is so wonderful and many blessings to you and your Sir along the way! -
Congratulations Secret sub! Happy for you lady and remember it’s all the little things and be patient, take it slow. Subtastic story!
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thank you sooo much for sharing!!! you are inspiring and giving me strength (hugs)
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Thank you everyone for your kind words and support! It was such an intimate moment for us, and I have everyone here to thank for helping us get to the point of embarking on our own D/s-M journey.
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Thank you so much for sharing and congratulations! I got teary as I read your post – I could just feel everything you were describing. Again, many congratulations and remember what LT said – be patient, go slow, and you’ll get there.
xoxox
june
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