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training day
Our training day is scheduled for a week from Friday[HUSDOM] works out of town. I am so very excited to find out the things he has planned. this is a new path for us, and as the conversations have unfolded and the contract has come togeather I realize I have always been a sub. I tend to everything I can so he does not have to. very vanilla. but always had those tendencies. but I want to know about your training days. what happened what to expect… I am quivering with anticipation. I cant wait for him to train me the way he wants me for hi pleasure.
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Tatiana, for My Master and I training is every day for us. This training is from sex to every day life. As a sub you find that there are many things in your real every day life that can use some training as well. So for us we “train” when there is something that needs improved on. Every couple is dif. but for us we are a what some people call a “daily D/s couple” or “24/7” so as all things in life issues are not always seen right away but creep up from time to time. These are the things that we “train” on. Like all things in life we learn every day. We can not learn every thing in a short period of time it is something that grows with you much like your new dynamic. I hope this helps this is just my take on things. Enjoy things and take them as they come you will find your way together with your Sir and welcome to the new world that is unfolding before you it is a beautiful ride enjoy the scenery. Hugs Beautiful
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Hi Tatiana. My training is similar to Beautiful’s, it’s an everyday thing. It started with a few very intense night so basic protocol and positional training and now that i know ‘the basics’ it has moved on to daily or weekly tasks that He wants me to work on or believes you be beneficial to better myself in those areas. He also gives me ‘thoughts of the day’ that i am to read and journal about. i find the mental stuff more of a challenge than the physical stuff most of the time, but i am growing which is pleasing to Him, and that warms my heart. There have already been many situations in the ‘real world’ that i believe i handled better because of the training my Sir has given me. From everything i am learning and reading this lifestyle and training is very unique to each couple. i hope you and your Sir enjoy your training, this journey is beautiful and amazing! Take care, E’s baby girl
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Thanks for the replies ladies!! Sir was reading on the HUSDOm site and called me, to tell me “I want to be extreamly clear. I have no desire to control every aspect of your life? I don’t care to control what you where and what you buy. just sexually” However he in a sence a vanilla way he already does, not because he wants to but just because I already have sub tendensies. Iv always catered to him and his needs. always tended t things on the homefront so he wouldn’t have to. would you say this is a 24/7 dynamic
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Hmmm, each couple has their own twist to the lifestyle but to just control the sex sounds more like a bedroom bdsm style more than a 24/7. MG and I have had a bedroom bdsm relationship for a couple of years. The difference between 24/7 and bedroom are different to me. But that’s our style. If it’s something that bothers you you should talk with him about it and tell him what it is you want and see if he can see that vision for himself someday. I hope it works out for you hon.
Hugs! MG’S B -
We dont schedule training days as such. We have days we play and days we scene. There are many more play days than scene days. During play we incorporate training, in aspects Sir feels it is needed. But it isnt just bedroom training, there are tasks for me to do, things to read up and report back etc. Training for us is to both find our roles, be comfortable in them and be mindful of each other. It’s not just stamina and physical skills but the emotional and spiritual work is important too, to achieve a balance.
I guess every couple does things differently to make it work for them.
Enjoy your first training day.
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