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How do I help?
Hi! I am very new and haven’t done a formal acceptance with my husband. We have talked about starting a D/s dynamic in the bedroom and covered some things we would be interested in. We have agreed on a time to start trying things and I let him know that I would research how we can get started. He has asked me to get information for him to look at too as he wouldn’t know where or how to begin. HusDom would be a great place, but he doesn’t do anything online that isn’t to do with his job. How do I get him the info from husDom? He will read it if I print it for him and he can take it with him, but I don’t want to register for him and break the rules of the site.
I am just really struggling with how to help him. Thank you for the advice.
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Sorry about the duplicate post.
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Welcum to subMrs!!! My first bit of advice is take it very slow and gradually add to your dynamic organically. There are some great articles that outline what to expect the first year and on. You will do a lot of leading initially but he will gradually need to take the reign. I am happy you mentioned Formal Acceptance!!! This is so important! Ask your Sir for what you want and get his agreement. Be prepared! It can be a beautiful and emotional experience. Your Sir will need to reach out on husDom. That is a safe place for the Dominants just like SubMrs is our safe place. Your Sir could access material and the chats from his smart phone if he gets breaks. D|s-M requires some work and engagement from both sides to be super successful. Be prepared! Many couples start out bedroom only and before you know it, you will crave it 24/7!!! Cum join us in chat! We can share more here. Also, keep an eye on the calendar in the Community tab for upcoming live chats! They are a blast!
sub-Hugs!!!
Marie
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Thank you submarie. I really appreciate it.
My plan right now is to do research for me and print out some of the green articles on husDom for him that we can both look at as we are learning. I am going to think about what to say for do for my FA. I think just starting with establishing some downtime is going to be our first step. That way we can get comfortable with that and talking before we move into doing anything physical. I really don’t want to scare him away. During this beginning step I am going to try to guide him into getting online, maybe as part of our downtime so he can research and we can talk about things right away. Maybe I can start journaling with him at this time.
I am excited to be a part of this community and sharing our journey.
((Hugs))
Meek
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