Greeting

[Zie]

DH has a very hard time, as I do, “getting home” emotionally. I deal with this in several ways. He has always been but-hurt if I don’t drop what I’m doing and go look him in the eye, say SOMETHING and/or have affection written somewhere on my presence. He has a point. He needs to “get home”. To BE THERE with me.And so I have made a game out of it. I send texts thru out the day – hints if you will of what is awaiting him that night. Pintrest has been a God send.Yestarday I took a picture of the Skypole Academy so he could SEE what I was up to. Sometimes it’s Walmart parking lot -He caught me for the 1st time ever watching a women walk by about 4 months ago so its a great joke now. Anyway… I may not be available when he arrives always but, he can smell what cooked or is cooking or he may need to check out the area to see what I changed, added or moved around (Bedroom wall mirrors – yes we have to desex the house if the kids are coming over.)

He may also checks my to do list in the kitchen for even more clues: “Pull the red set”, ” get a different lube”, “go to walmart- need big candles” stuff like that. Sometimes I make it to the door, and always have something on that makes him smile or, like this monday make him laugh. It was a fake nose ring this Monday and since as he never knows what I’ll get up to most days… he had to come see close up -wink-wink- if it was real or not.

<font face=”inherit”> I always greet him with “Welcome home my kind Sir” and a kiss if he doesn’t smell really awful. At least a lip peck and a funny face if he does. I appreciate all the good care he works so hard at and so wish to make the transition fun to come home to. Even when we were raising the Grandgirls – the “guess what I did today game” has helped him so very much. No kids now, so the greeting may be a blur of Fishnet and </font>tinkling<font face=”inherit”> slave bells I have managed to get on, as I rush by because the dog is so excited to see him she is fixing to pee the floor and I have to get her out the back! Whatever it is, I just need to make it fun – cuz if IT aint fun…I wouldn’t want to do “IT” either. </font>

[lady]

It is a bit different for me. My Sir is going back to school and starting his business from home and I am also working from home. My work does not always allow me to to leave at 4:30. When I am done with work I find my Sir where ever he may be (in his workshop, in his office, working outside) and announce my presence. I wait until he has finished what he is doing and go to him and snuggle into him. This moment signals to him I am done with work. This moment helps me to transition into my full submissive mind set.