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      1. Not life as much as ourselves. One thing I’ve learned, is that introducing this kind of honesty in the bedroom has a ripple affect in your marriage. We’ve had more fights in the past few months than in the entirety of our relationship. It’s okay, things needed to be talked about, and now they are. We’ve kind of put things on hold somewhat while figure out how to deal with some resentment issues. It’s funny,we managed to have sex all the time before absolutely riddled with aggravation towards one another lol. Sex is so intimate and honest now that it inevitably triggers a discussion(loud) before during or after. We’ll figure it out. I’m betting it’s fairly normal, I hope it is anyway lol.

        1. I’m sorry to hear that there are issues happening. I can feel the hurt in your words. I’m hoping that with the honesty does come truth and resolve. D/s does pull everything out in the open. You are so open that all subjects that may have been swept under the rug before are now out in open view to deal with. Totally normal and I’m thinking you both will del with these issues and you will be better and stronger for it… Email if you need to… Best Wishes, LK ❤

          1. You’re exactly right. The proverbial rug has been lifted, and well…did I mention I hate vacuuming? It’s very dusty under there. Lol. You’re right, I’m hurt. But I’ll deal. Truthfully, I felt like just giving up the last couple of days, but I won’t. I won’t( can’t) go back to the way things were before, so I’ll have to figure it out. One thing is for sure, no more faking it. Before I could just “go through the motions” and separate myself from the physical aspect, that just doesn’t work now. I’m glad about that right? 😉

          2. Girl.. You’re preaching to the choir… Lol! Vacuuming sucks! I can’t go back… Before it was “Robotic, going through the motions.” That’s crap.. No way to live. Keep trying… Keep communicating with him… I’m here! LK ❤

          3. Thanks Lk, I know. You’ve been a huge help and I appreciate it. I figure that as long as we’re still talking, that’s progress.

          4. Yes, once you’ve felt the honesty and the magic of this lifestyle, unfortunately for most, they can’t go back vanilla again. So, keep working on it and you’ll get there. LK ❤

  1. That’s us at night sometimes, sure… but first thing in the morning is a different story! Or first thing after work… or sometimes in the middle of the night…. oh my.