These are some great ideas! A few years ago someone suggested a plastic clothes hanger to use as a quiet impact tool. Shorter whips such as a quirt or devil’s tongue may be a little more on the quiet side as well. A wooden spoon may do the trick! It will be fun testing out all of the possibilities!
Hisgirl offers some really great ideas. We have very thin walls in our house and have to be very quiet, which sucks because I love dirty talk. We also have to worry about the bed knocking against the wall. LOL! Because of this we use a lot of pinching and clamps, we tried electro play, and we have one of those little wheels but Daddy has never…[Read more]
Pressure points are great too. Originally Sir was looking for ways to help me relax and sleep easier at night. Which it does that as well. But I have found some of them very erotic, and beautifully painful! And the leftover tenderness from it tends to be there for a couple days afterwards as a reminder! It’s one of my favorite types of play.
I was hoping for more ideas here… Daddy is looking into a new job that would most likely mean that we (like Daddy’s brother & Sister-in-law… same job) will live out of a pull behind trailer. I’m looking for pain Play ideas that are quiet, as our 11yo will have fewer places to go be occupied allowing us to play loudly and RV type trailers are…[Read more]
What did you end up getting? Do you like it? Crops, Floggers and Whips are some of my favorite things. 🙂 I just gifted my Sir a new custom Dragon’s Tongue Whip. I am hoping we get to play with it a bit this weekend! EEECK!!!
Been away for a short while, but me and sir are getting back into it. I fluently enjoy the crop, there is something of feeling the small leather straps whip against my skin that brings me pain but great pleasure.
I prefer a heavy thud but both are nice. Sir generally starts with his hand and then alternates between the crop, double leather strap, cane and cane flogger. When he is feeling especially…. hmm what’s the right word..frisky doesn’t seem right, but neither does sadistic… let’s move on.. He pulls out a pig whip, VERY stingy and not always my…[Read more]
Amazing post! Thank you!!! As we have traveled down this road I have found more and more pleasure in the pain. About a month ago, Sir made the comment that he thought I might be a masochist. He didn’t mean it in a negative way, but that’s how I took it. In my 40 years of living under a vanilla rock, the only times I had heard that term was in a…[Read more]
I think I prefer thuddy to stingy, but variety if the spice to life!
The flogger we have is moose hide and it is pretty thuddy, there isn’t really any pain to it, but offers great meditation for me as I relax into the rhythm of a flogging. Daddy’s hand is always a great tool. I also enjoy a the light sting of a ping pong paddle, but ours just…[Read more]
How do we subs handle erotic pain play? My Sir has always been very cautious proceeding carefully with everything and it has made my trust during these kinds of scenes complete. I never think He will give me more than I can handle because He just hasn’t. Now that He has my trust He seems to be increasing the intensity and although I desperately…[Read more]
Our first impact toy was a crop. I LOVE the crop. Depending on how much impact you are comfortable with a leather strap is my favorite. We also learned quickly that places that sell horse tack are the best to buy crops and straps. Better quality for less cost. Our first crop was from a “Toy” store and worked fine. We broke it quickly. We got a nic…[Read more]