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National Weed Your “Secret” Garden Day | Twisted Holiday | Sexy Couple’s Ideas and Inspirations

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June 13, 2021 All day


National Weed Your Garden Day, cums along every June 13th each year. This day serves us as a reminder to gardeners, secret gardeners (submissive’s) to take an extra 5 or 10 minutes to weeding things out of their their gardens that is no longer working for them or their dynamic.

One of the best gardening tips is to stay in “control of your garden”. I know subMrs having control, what? Well, I have to remind everyone in Married Dominance and Submission that YES, the submissive has control, control over the dynamic. The dynamic can end just as speaking “red” during a scene does… You do have that control. You have the control to submit or not to. Are you controlling the dynamic overall, no… some guidance is usually appreciated. Unfortunately, as you grow your SECRET GARDEN, weed will grow just as fast as your dynamic enlarges. With inattention, they will become overwhelming or a drag to what you hold most dear. Giving daily awareness to your garden makes much easier to maintain. Weeding 5 or 10 minutes each downtime will make weeding simplistic, even enjoyable. This way you will be in control, and the weeds will not!

Excessive and unwanted weeds will crowd those foundational roots and starve your power exchange circle that is needed so badly for your roles to grow strong and healthy. 

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Helpful tips on reducing weeds in your secret garden:

  • Work together, not separate on dynamic. Your roles yes must be your own, but move forward overall together!
  • Review rituals, in downtime, every 3 months.
  • If a ritual doesn’t work right away, toss it and try another.
  • Keep your rites(cumming soon), downtimes, scenes and play schedules.
  • Communicate any nerves or issues.
  • In discussion do not let a mole hill become a mountain.
  • Keep rituals and rules simple at first, don’t over due and set yourself up for failure.
  • Keep a youthful spirit about it all.
  • Have goals.

How to Observe this Day

  • Do a celebratory downtime, add some garden to it, flowers, hint to your Sir, bring some flowers home…
  • A good spanking, let the tears fall, purge and be renewed. Follow up with a nice floral lotion aftercare, Amazon-2 day delivery!
  • Get on site and share your weeding of your unique garden with a subMrs friend. Sharing your experience with another makes the day feel more like a celebration.
  • Rewarding yourself with tall glass of something wine or a spirit of your Sir’s choice, sit and admire your weeding together, a celebration of your secret garden.

Happy National Weed Your Garden Day!


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