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Domestic Servitude | Organization Manual

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November 19, 2021 @ 9:00 pm 10:00 pm EST

Do you enjoy domestic service as a subMrs or submissive? In domestic service roles, or domestic servitude, the submissive can receive pleasure and satisfaction from performing services for their dominant. For instance, serving as a butler, waitress, chauffeur, maid or housekeeper.  By focusing on the needs of another rather than themselves, many derive satisfaction.


In BDSM, service-oriented submission or servitude refers to a person performing personal tasks for their dominant partner. This is part of their submissive role in a BDSM relationship. The submissive is said to be in service to the dominant. Service-oriented submission is part of a spectrum of submissive behaviors. But as we all know, not all submissives are service-oriented.

Service-oriented submission can be performed in ways that are either servile, or dignified. Boot-blacking, for example, is a service-oriented task performed within the leather subculture. Boot-blacking may sometimes involve boot-licking as part of the activity. You can do the same service for your husDOM by taking care of your Dominants shoes, as well as caring for his feet while bathing or before bed. A service-submissive’s pleasure is combined with the pleasures of fetishes, the pleasures of humiliation, or both. A submissive may rub his or her dominant’s feet because the sub enjoys providing the service, has a foot fetish, enjoys being “lower” than the dominant, or any combination.

November Master and slave Group Meeting

November… the beginning of the end of the year. Before the holiday rush can be a perfect time to set up your new year Domestic Service Organization Manual. Please join J’s bunny for a discussion on Getting Organized in a Master slave Role Play Dynamic. Whether you call it a House Book, Butler Book, slave Bible, or Master Manual, having something to keep you organized is essential to a slave. J’s bunny will be sharing how her House Book grew into a Master Manual. Additionally, what to put in it and how to keep track of things. If you have your own organizational book started, bring it to chat. This is going to be a collective discussion, so bring your ideas, templates, notes, and useful apps. We are going to start 2022 organized and ready for our Masters!

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