EDGE PLAY, IT’S DARK, SCARY & DANGEROUS….. what is it? It is types of sexual play that are considered to be pushing on the edge of the traditional S.S.C. (safe, sane and consensual) creed. In the new D/s~M , you can bring light to this dark subject and make it your own…. Play with an edge.. What used to be literal can be somewhat figurative in D/s~M.
Edgeplay is usually defined in three ways: Only to be done Consensually and respectfully.
- Edgeplay is SM (Sadomasochism is the giving and/or receiving of pleasure—often sexual.) play that involves a chance of harm, either physically or emotionally. It’s also subjective to the players involved; what is risky for me might not be risky for you and visa versa. A few examples of edge play are fireplay, Electro- play, breath play:erotic asphyxiation and blood play.
Edgeplay can also literally mean play with an edge. Some examples of this play are cutting, knives, swords and other sharp implements.
3. Any practice which challenges the limits or boundaries of one or more of the participants.
(submissives guide & Wikipedia)
Should you go out on the edge? The ledge…… Jump! Even if its only one step at a time…..
# 3!!! Is probably the term most used with D/s~Married couples. Being Married you start with a LONG list of Hard Limits… Breaking through those limits, Challenging those boundaries in your D/s~M Lifestyle is your Edging…
….. but with-in 6 months your list of Hard Limits ….well becomes soft! LOL!( Hopefully, that’s all that becomes soft… Sorry, couldn’t help myself.) Most of us have been in marriages for an extended amount of time and have earned and grown great trust (An assured reliance) with one another. This trust lends to a great D/s relationship. You can reach higher heights with this true trust… This trust is from not wanting it but actually having this trust between the two of you. You will quickly find that you are eager for more.. Edging or pushing your limits, enjoying every second of this part of your journey.
I encourage you to find these hard limit items and find ways to make them fun for one another. Review them in your “downtime” and make it what you both want and enjoy. You will even surprise yourself sometimes! Leave the more EDGIER things for the future or tomorrow… LOL!
??? I would like to hear from experienced subs out there…
What was your first Hard Limit item that you ran over, stomped on and surpassed that was soooo FUN! ?????