Domination & Submission
~Renewing My Commitment… Renew Yours~
It’s a new year and a great time for you submissive’s to renew your D/s. Have you gotten through your first phase? It has been magic for your marriage and sex was harder and more delicious then ever. As time goes by sometimes things slip… Downtime is put off until next week or your scenes are no longer weekly. Your connection is slipping and you may feel vanilla creeping back in. The commitment is there in your mind yet the actions are not matching your words. The wave length can get lost. Once that is lost… It is hard to recapture it …… D/s she is trying to slip away in a mist.. turn your head and she’ll be gone.
I have gone through this stage and it is not a fun one but you have to fight for this lifestyle sometimes. I or I mean we can NEVER go back to how things used to be. We took a bite out of this D/s lifestyle and we are ruined forever for anything else vanilla. It’s our own brand of cocaine, one that you can NOT quit. I crave the way it makes me feel. I crave the way I am in heat every time he touches my low back. He craves to put his fingers around my neck… He craves to tie and torture my body… I want to see the Dominant in his eyes. I want his sweat pooling on my back again. I have to see those eyes, my Dominant’s eyes. He wants me on my knees … Can I be that still? I have to feed him with my submission… to make him stronger. In turn making us and our lifestyle stronger.
Where were we now, we asked ourselves. How bad do we still want this? We both made that decision… More then our next breath. Sir decided he would love me harder… I asked him to love me harder… Love my heart, my mind and my body HARDER. Sir will take me higher… I will keep up on my submission. We renewed our commitment.
We had put to much in at this point to even think about quitting. We have been out here on the web for almost 3 yrs. now and there were not any married sites still going after the two year mark. WOW… It’s true subs… ITS A TWO YEAR WALL! The highs are higher but so are the lows.. They are lower. How can something that makes you so strong, like submitting make you so weak when it’s taken away. Take that “Domination & Submission-drug” away and you will go through withdrawal and start spiraling, taking things out on the one you love. That’s a whole other post.
Back to you ….. Things do slip and that’s natural. Keeping the Domination & Submission connection is so very important though. You have to keep it flowing. So my advice is to take this new time of year and go back to your basics. Go back and get your calendars out and schedule those scenes/playtime at least 2x/mo. Schedule your downtimes as much as possible… nightly if you can. Renew your Submission, help your Sir Renew his Domination. Go back clean up all the stuff going on in your head. Ask your Sir to do the same. Our minds get cluttered just as our houses do. Clean out the cob-webs/skeletons and make those new commitments to take your D/s another step further. D/s is about experiences.. TAKE THE NEXT STEP… EPLORE! You get stagnant and you’ll start questioning the whole dynamic. Explain this to your Sir in downtime. What things on your soft limits that you can explore and push. Oh yeah…READ!!! So important to keep being inspired. Read those books ladies it is your coal to your fire.
Lastly, Review your rituals, rules and contracts. Plan a ceremony… Large or small, make D/s yours again!
Get back to it before she, (D/s) is gone. You don’t know when or if she will ever appear again…..
D/s is team work. D/s is work. But we all want a little pain with our pleasure, don’t we?
That’s why we are here, right?
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Domination & Submission
Renew your D/s