BDSM| Is it Right for Us? |Defining it , Accepting it & Building on it |FSOG Lifestyle
~BDSM~
What is it?
Is it Right for You?
Define it, Accept it & Build on it……
In BDSM, I have found along the way that a lot of people are not familiar with the definition of This Thing We Do (TTWD) …. Sometimes we start our journey and need reminders of what it is we are aiming for. Couples also, at a certain stage start re-evaluating what we are doing and what parts are working for us and what’s not working for us… In that process, if it is not turning out to be what one or both partners want they tend to start redefining it and making/shaping it into something entirely else. You make it your own remember but you stay within the BDSM & D/s dynamics. No one can change this definition…. … BDSM is what it has been since the beginning…. and will be until the end… So let’s review….
BDSM stands for An overlapping abbreviation of Bondage and Discipline (BD),
Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM).
Definition: BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint.
This definition can not be changed..It will forever be the same.
In a BDSM relationship there is a dynamic D/s…. A Dominant & a submissive. In D/s you can be single or you can have a D/s-M… a dynamic between a married couple or LTR (long term relationship) partners.
A top or Dominant is the partner in a BDSM relationship or in a BDSM scene who takes the active or controlling role over that of the bottom or submissive partner.
The bottom or submissive takes the passive, receiving, or obedient role. A bottom can be subjected to acts such as flogging, servitude, or humiliation and can be physically restrained by bondage, which can itself inflict pain. ..
The BDSM term is an acronym intended to take in all of the following activities:
- Bondage and discipline play (B & D or B/D)
- Dominance and submission (D & S or D/s) (including “master and slave” role-playing scenarios and ongoing relationship structures)
- Sadism and masochism (S & M or S/M)
Again, These definitions were not something that was made up here on subMrs.com or husDom.com but are in ……. wikipedia.
These are the pillars that all of our dynamics stand on.
*Enjoy one another’s flesh…. Doms take your power and subs provide it…. Let the Magic Begin….. Just as you read in FSOG….
The power, the edge, the luxury, the relationship you desire, can be yours….
How Do I become a submissive?
How Do I become a Dominant?
Make sure you know their definitions,…….. then……
Contact: Little Kaninchen @ LK@subMrs.com or husDOM… MrFox@husDOM.com
*If this is a review and you find that maybe you and your partner need to take a couple steps back to recapture what you were looking for in the beginning… That is fine.. Take the steps back sit in DOWNTIME and re-evaluate and get back on track…. BDSM, should be fun and inspiring NOT a continuous struggle. It should deepen your relationship.
BDSM will take you to higher heights.
You Work HARD … You get to PLAY HARD!
HUGS! ~LK
