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  A few questions about growth.

  Posted by rotorsgirl on at

  I am new to the lifestyle. I’m having some difficulty in a couple areas. Fortunately my Sir is patient. He has been a Master off and on over the years. This is my only D/s relationship. Some questions that keep thinking are as follows.

  1. What type of people are well suited for a D/s relationship?
  As times I feel like I’m not good enough. But I know that’s a moment of weakness on my part.

  2. How do you adjust in your new confidence?
  I personally have never had very good self esteem. But I’m learning.

  3. After adjusting, how are you now?

  I feel like my toolbox is half empty. I’m looking for tools. Any thoughts or advise?

  RotorsGirl

  caterpillar replied 9 years, 1 month ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  caterpillar

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  Hi and welcome!
  We are all still learning here, no matter how long we have been on this journey.

  I frequently feel that i am not good enough, but my Sir says i am amazing. Do you discuss that with your Sir at all?

  Once again, talk to your Sir…adjusting takes time, it’s a whole new mind & body set.

  Communication is the biggest thing in this TTWD (this thing that we do). You have to voice your concerns always, or it will not work. Go read LK’s blog, from the beginning, she is a wise and thoughtful woman. Plus join chats, we are a wonderful group of women here, with lots of wisdom.

  Hope that helps a little.
  xxoo

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